Getting up at least an hour earlier to have a head start. If I do this then I find that I can be more efficient during the day and it frees up so much more quality time that I can give to my children.
Once a week date night with a different child.
Using the example I have from my Savior as the best way to love and teach.
My belief that motherhood will be my most noble calling.
Lots of field trips to help children to become socialized and cultured.
Lots of Affection.
Finding time to fill my personal cup with things that I enjoy.
I feel like prioritizing is so personal and what works for one may not work for another and may even change from season to season. In my season right now I choose quite a few things over the cleanliness of my house. Yes it is important but I would rather do things that include playing because as I see it the messes will always be there but the little children will not and I want them to remember the fun we had...(some may find that very unladylike...haha-)
I guess I would say a little make-up, a necklace, a scarf and a hat may just be my best friends. I often go days without washing my hair so I have to find ways to get around the not so fresh look. I do have to say I have mastered the "fake the look of spending lots of time to get ready" look with some of those things that I have mentioned. For me I usually feel so much better when I at least spend a little time to actually get dressed and look presentable. It makes me feel more like a lady...which feels good.
Being a lady literally means remembering that I am a spirit daughter of the most creative Being in the universe. He wants us to be like Him which means that we should find great joy & satisfaction from being creative and being a lady. There are so many ways that we can express our creativity. For me I love to use my creativity in decorating my home and making crafts.
To master the art of loving as purely as our Savior does....from there I feel the domino effect will happen and all of the traits to being a lady will fall into place.